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August 2, 2010

Life is Good Today!

Zac Brown’s “Toes in the Sand” ran through my head in a slightly distorted version as I sat in my backyard in the hot sun. “I got my toes in Harley’s nostrils, butt in a chair…” Yes, Harley found a new toy that day and once he thoroughly examined my toes and the chair they rested on, we both settled in for an afternoon siesta. The shadow cast by Harley’s head blocked the sun’s rays from my eyes and a droopy horse lip six inches from my forehead was my view. The gentle relaxed breathing of my favorite Spanish Mustang tickled my face as we enjoyed a special afternoon of bonding. Yes Zac, I agree – Life is good today!

The morning started with briefly checking on the horses. Harley was standing in his usual corner and received his usual scratch. Spotting mud on the bottom rail of the fence, I made a mental note to talk to my son about where he had been scraping his boots. Soon the grass was flying as I mowed and made more mental notes of what job I needed to tackle next. As the mower strew clippings into the pasture, the horses gathered to taste the tender morsels. Harley, near the fence, moved quickly away when the mower passed and it was then my heart started pounding. Harley was lame.

A nail in his frog was the probable reason behind the mud on the rail as my young colt tried to scrape the offending metal out of his hoof. Visions of an abscess tormented me as I soaked his hoof clean and made a few phone calls to the vet and farrier. Harley and I bit the bullet and pulled the nail, paying special attention to how deeply it was embedded and in what direction. Luckily Harley was a champ and never flinched as I pulled the thorn out of the lion’s paw. After additional soaking, dressing and wrapping – I turned the new vet wrap and duct tape king loose in the yard to graze where his feet would remain relatively clean. However, Harley being Harley, soon discovered the cornfield. After several trips to retrieve my errant little boy, I gave myself permission to take a break from the stressful day and sit in the sunshine…and keep a closer eye on my mischievous colt.

Surprisingly at that point, Harley decided I was much more interesting than corn or grass and came to visit. First the chair my feet rested upon was examined, tasted and knocked over. Then the real fun began as he discovered my bare feet. My big toes were inhaled and shoved up each nostril as far as they could go. My feet were licked and nuzzled to the point I was beginning to worry that my little horse had an obsession. He also decided toes were just like fingers as he offered his jaw for a scratch.

Finally relieved of his curiosity of something he had never seen outside cowboy boots, Harley placed himself by my head. After inhaling my breath – now slow and calm, he cocked a hip and fell asleep – shading my face with his beautiful head and drooping lip. There we sat, dozing in the sunshine with Harley standing guard over me as if I were a member of his herd. Before long, he also felt safe and lay down next to my chair like a good horse/dog for a nap.

What Harley and I shared under that hot summer sun – from his total trust in me to relieve his pain to the my trust in him not to eat my toes and the best nap time we have ever had – was a special occasion for us both. The bonding between us was etched in stone and gave just a hint of what will come as we eagerly hit the trails together.

Harley and I rewrote Zac Brown’s hit that day to “I got my toes in the stirrups, faithful Harley beneath. Not a worry in the world, many trails to see. Life is good today. Life is good today.

December 1, 2009

Weathering the Storms

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you all! It’s amazing how fast the past year has gone. It was a year filled with many ups and downs for family and friends, but crisis and hardships were offset by extremely spectacular moments meant to be remembered and cherished for years to come.

I’ve made many good friends this year through the “new fangled” way of meeting and greeting people – Facebook and Twitter. One such friend met through Facebook but never in person is Mark Madsen, who just posted a very reflective statement, “Did you ever watch horses in a bad snow storm?? They turn their butt to the wind and snow and let it blow. When the storm is over they just shake off the snow and go back to eating grass. Hmm, sometimes you need to just shake it off and go on with living.” This is excellent advice for all of us from someone who has been through his share of storms. Mark has worked hard at shaking off that snow through the one avenue which works so well – by using the healing power of horses.

Storms can come in so many varieties – from a gentle cleansing rainstorm to an all-out raging blizzard, tornado or hurricane – but they never last forever. Farmers and ranchers have to deal daily with weather delays and worries – especially this past year with record cold, wet and now a delayed harvest. As of Dec. 1 as I’m writing this column, our corn is still standing in the field while we wait for the moisture levels to lower. This in itself creates a storm of itself of worry and stress – unharvested crop does not pay the bills. Do we let the storm creep under our hides or do we just turn our backs to it and wait for it to pass so we can shake off the worry and prepare for a new year?

Harley and I had a storm the other day…which sure surprised the heck out of me! But his training has been hit and miss between the weather and farm work so I probably had it coming. We quickly went from an eager walk to an “oh crap – what’s this all about” as we bounced our way towards my new rail fence. Not liking the thought of a fence post landing, I opted for the “Let Go and Let God” strategy and met with Mother Earth. This was followed with a Come to Jesus Meeting as we settled our differences first from the ground and once again upon his back. The day ended on a better note although we both were still a little hot under the collar. Time management issues with Thanksgiving and work once again prevailed to the point of Harley being ignored basically for a week until yesterday when I once again spent some time with my little gelding. By then, the storm had passed and we both shook the snow off of our backs as we enjoyed each other’s company.

Life throws a snowball at you on occasion – do you throw it back with a vengeance or do you turn tail to the wind and wait until the storm passes so you can shake that snow off your back and go on living? Fighting the storms normally makes matters worse but sometimes waiting the storm out can be hard for those of us lacking patience. One of my favorite quotes by an unknown author gives you another option, “Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass – It’s about learning to dance in the rain.” Find the Joy, Live the Joy, Be the Joy! And as always, look Into the Sunset for a brand new day.

MyBoys

October 13, 2009

Living in the Moment

Living in the moment. Within the coolness of the fall day, the silence broken by the whisper of the wind in the pines high above and a warning cry of the blue jay from its evergreen branches. I walked on, closely followed by the blue roan – his nose lightly touching my shoulder. Warm breath and whiskers tickling my cheek halts my wanderings as I stop to scratch the friendly colt. White hairs sift down to the ground, much like the approaching snowflakes of winter.

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It was the robustly colored pheasants that drew me from the warmth of the house – two roosters squabbling over the territorial rights of my back yard. The shy creatures fled at my approach, resounding squawks protesting my intrusion. I was drawn to the hills of the pasture and the horses within. The chestnut’s legs reached for the sky as he rolled in an effort to dry the rain from his hide – his shaggy and now muddy coat betraying the sleek summer sheen of days past.

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The blue roan, started by the commotion, left my side to the hill above, highlighted by a brief ray of sunshine against the deep green of the pines. The clicks of my camera shutter the only unnatural sound amidst the drone of the crickets in the grass.

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It became a game between the blue roan and I, as he ran from hillside to corral and then back to me. My camera captured the moments of his romp – his glee refusing to be dampened by the cloudy day. His mottled coat a blur of motion as he bucked and kicked with the enthusiasm of the young; settling to a walk as he respectfully approached me for another scratch. At my urging, he exits for another run, up hill and down – mud, mane and tail flying in the breeze generated by his thundering hooves, echoing in the quiet of the approaching shower.

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The older geldings waited patiently in the muddy corral, unaffected by the zeal of the blue roan colt named Harley until he too, waited patiently by the fence for his snack of crab apples. Hastened by another approaching rain shower, I gathered the crisp red windfalls and fed the boys their treats. Soon smacking lips and the fresh scent of apple mingled with the gentle cleansing drops falling from the sky. The drops became larger – silencing the crickets with their damp. Wanting to linger with warm horse breath upon my fingers and rain damp upon my hair, the earthy scent of smoke emitting from the chimney reluctantly drew me back to the warmth and crackle of the wood fire within. Living in the moment – treasured for years to come.
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February 14, 2009

Simple Pleasures

Simple pleasures in life. What makes you happy? Is it an evening spent in the barn listening to the contented munching of hay by your horse? The warmth of the cat’s soft fur as it is curled up on your lap purring. Is the wag of the tail and joy on your dog’s face as he runs up to greet you enough to make you smile for a few hours?

Getting back to the basics of life and shedding material things can be an enlightening moment. Time stands still as you stand by your horse and bury your face in his mane. Silence and peace reigns as you watch the hawk float overhead in search of his prey.

Happiness can be found in every nook and cranny of this crazy world. Just try watching the joy on a child’s face as he takes his first solo ride on “his horse”. Confidence builds as he loosens his grip on the saddle horn and reaches forward to pet him on the neck. We can learn a lot from children. The simple joy of soaring high on a swing and pretending you are flying. Screaming when the frustration gets too overwhelming and yes, even throwing an occasional temper tantrum can help to let that pent up steam off.

We, as adults, need to let go of the tight grip we have on life and learn to go back to the simple pleasures of life. Life will go on, the world will not stop if we just take a few moments to enjoy ourselves. Enjoy the satisfaction of your horse performing his best, taking care of you in bad trail conditions and showing you what he has learned. My friend, Kerry, related her feelings of riding Cody in team penning competitions and trail riding and how he did so good and how she feels when she rides him. The joy and admiration in her voice showed me the reason we have horses. To slow down, enlighten our lives and feel the satisfaction garnered when your horse responds to your faintest of cues.

Your horse is a master at enjoying the simple pleasures in life. The twitching of his lip when you scratch “the spot.” Nuzzling his pasture buddy in the warm sunshine or kicking up his heels and going for a buck and run just because it’s Tuesday. Their eyes tell of their satisfaction as they take that long drink of fresh cold water and then go roll in the dirt after a hard ride. After a day on the trail, my horse will plant his nostril upon my face and inhale as if saying, “Wow, can you believe what we just did? That was a blast!”

Simple pleasures heal the soul, calm the mind and sooth the spirit of the tired. Scents of freshly mown hay, flowers, leather and of course, horses refresh the staleness of life. The bowing of your head as you join in prayer with family and friends, thanking God for all he has done.

Open your mind to the simple pleasures of life and allow yourself to enjoy them as you once did when you were a young child. Let the laughter bubble out as you joke with friends, scream, dance and let go of that saddle horn to allow yourself to embrace life and enjoy it to the fullest. Simple pleasures – What makes you happy?

January 23, 2009

Stress Management

Filed under: All My Posts,Family and Friends,Humorous Ponderings — Tags: , — Dawn @ 8:54 am

Someone asked me awhile ago how I handle the day-to-day stress of farming, weather worries, a sick father and the list goes on. Well, day-to-day, I handle my stress differently but as of late, I have been on a major cleaning/throwing binge. Creative destruction I call it!

A week without my computer while awaiting word on my Dad’s medical tests led me to my closet first. It didn’t take long and I had almost the entire contents (I left my hubbies things intact, much to his relief!) strewn across my bedroom. Shelves were pulled off the wall and old dressers painted in the red and black theme from my son’s 101 Dalmation days were hauled out of the basement and installed in place of the shelves. I had been waiting on this project to repaint the dressers but decided I could live with the colors for the moment! Next came the sorting/throwing thing. Clothes I hadn’t worn for 5+ years didn’t have a chance, clothes saved for “painting projects” were gleefully ripped into rags and some things I quietly snuck into the burn barrel just because that was all they were good for! By evening, I was down to my pile of ironing which I struggled through….I hate ironing and had left it until the ironing board groaned under the weight of this unfinished project. Luckily a friend called at just the right moment and talked me through that job. The next morning, I walked into my walk-in closet and marveled that it had a floor and so far, that floor still exists…wish me luck!

The back room in the basement was next on the list and a much harder project. I convinced myself that any grandchild who comes along deserves brand new sheets so I threw out the old ones along with the bumper pads (guess they are too dangerous to use now altho my son is still alive!!). I couldn’t bear to part with Kyle’s blankets and after hugging them and inhaling the scent of baby, gently placed them back in their tub. On the departed list was a humidifier we hadn’t used since we moved into this home 18 years ago, a little greenhouse that was fun until the aphids consumed my baby plants, carpet and linoleum remnants and a variety of other “stuff” that I no longer had a need for. My hubby came in for lunch and cautiously stepped around the pile of items hauled into the garage for disposal. He took a fearful glance in my general direction, made some comments about my “flying monkeys and she’s not afraid to use them” and fled the scene to an undisclosed safe haven.  Not daring to argue, he even hauled my discarded rubble to the dump for me! Project completed, I can now also see the floor in my little corner of the basement!

Yesterday morning, I mentioned taking my throwing/sorting compulsion into my son’s room while Steve was chatting with Kyle on the computer. I’m not sure what Kyle said about me entering and destroying his sacred space but all of a sudden, Steve had the wonderful idea of helping me clean the horse barn so we could install the insulation upon the walls and ceiling before the next cold snap hit. He knows me quite well as I never pass on projects that involve the horses. Out into the barn we went and after using the skid steer to clean, we starting the insulating project that took the entire day. Kyle’s room was saved and I was at peace last night after spending the day inhaling the sweet scent of horses and leaving a barn bedded with fresh straw and new insulation guaranteed to make their lives more comfortable.

Perhaps my sorting/throwing compulsion will return at some time but today I’m into the construction mode and ready to tackle my writing projects…..the delete key will be ready and waiting however, just in case!

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